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Unequal Earnings? No Problem! How to Handle Joint Finances with Confidence

Updated: Aug 1, 2023


 

Are you and your partner considering combining your finances, but feeling overwhelmed by the prospect? If you're like many couples, figuring out how to handle unequal earnings can be a major roadblock.


But don't worry, because in today's issue, we're going to tackle this common financial challenge head-on. I'll be sharing my top tips for navigating unequal earnings in your relationship and building a strong, harmonious financial partnership.


Whether you're a high-earner or just starting out, you won't want to miss these invaluable insights.


If you and your partner don't make the same amount of money, it can be difficult to determine how much each person should contribute to a joint account.

This can lead to disagreements and resentment, especially if one partner feels like they're shouldering a disproportionate amount of the financial burden.

So, how do you calculate what each partner should contribute to a joint account? Here are a few tips to help you get started:

1. Determine Your Fixed Expenses

The first step is to determine your fixed expenses - the bills and other expenses that you must pay each month. These might include your rent or mortgage, utilities, car payments, and other regular bills. Add up these expenses to determine your total monthly cost of living. The best way to keep track of all of this is by using a budget.

2. Calculate Your Income Ratio

Next, calculate the ratio of each person's income to the total household income. For example, if one partner makes $40,000 per year and the other partner makes $60,000 per year, the total household income is $100,000.

The first partner's income ratio would be 40% (40,000 / 100,000), while the second partner's income ratio would be 60% (60,000 / 100,000).

3. Apply the Ratio to Your Fixed Expenses

Once you have your income ratio, you can apply it to your fixed expenses to determine how much each partner should contribute. For example, if your total monthly cost of living is $5,000 and one partner's income ratio is 40%, they would be responsible for contributing 40% of the total cost, or $2,000 per month.

The other partner, with an income ratio of 60%, would be responsible for contributing 60% of the total cost, or $3,000 per month.

It's important to note that this calculation only applies to fixed expenses - the bills and other expenses that don't change from month to month; which leads to point #4

4. Adjust for Variable Expenses

Variable expenses, such as groceries, entertainment, and personal care items, should be adjusted based on each partner's individual income and spending habits.

If you're thinking about combining your finances with your partner, I have a special offer for you. Download my Free Financial Compatibility Guide to learn more about financial incompatibility and the behaviors that can either make or break your relationship. This guide includes a quiz that will help you and your partner identify your financial strengths and weaknesses, and work together towards a stronger, more harmonious relationship. Don't miss out on this valuable resource - download it today!




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By following these steps in my guide, you can create a fair and equitable system for managing your joint finances, even if you and your partner don't make the same amount of money.


Remember, open communication and a willingness to work together are key to creating a happy and harmonious relationship.


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